THE SELF-MANAGEMENT OF DIFFERENT KINDS OF PAIN:
THE SELF-MANAGEMENT OF CHRONIC PAIN
This involves the understanding and practice of the various ideas which we have discussed. Remember that this is not difficult, but it requires a little time and a little perseverance. Remember that many patients whom I have told these things verbally have succeeded. The only difference with you is that I am telling you by writing it down instead of saying it in words; and actually by writing it down I am able to explain it much more fully.
We have spoken of six general principles in the self-management of pain. If you were with me in my consulting room, I would repeat them to you in order to impress them on your mind. So I shall do the same now.
1. Reduce your general level of anxiety by understanding the nature of pain, by facing and resolving conflicts which cause anxiety, and by using the relaxing mental exercises to reduce anxiety.
2. Guard against the reactions that make pain worse. Do not allow distress, guilt, or fear to take over.
3. Use the reactions that reduce pain. Deny it and distract yourself from it when you can. Relax deeply and practice autosuggestion. When you can, use dissociation.
4. Practise the relaxing mental exercises.
5. Increase your pain threshold by conditioning yourself with the exercises in discomfort and pain.
6. Learn to experience and accept pain in pure form, which does not hurt.
We have discussed the means of fulfilling each of these principles, and we have seen that each step in itself is not difficult, as one follows the other in ordered gradation.
I always warn my patients of three things: Do not expect too much too quickly. Expect a few ups and downs, good days and bad days in the process of mastering the self-management. Do not get cross with yourself if at first you cannot do just what I ask.
I could relate many examples of patients I have had who have been successful in learning how to control their pain.
A man with cancer of the prostate suffered severe pain from secondary growths in the bones of his pelvis. He learned to relax and control the pain reasonably well, so that the last weeks of his life were actually spent in a clear mind and relative comfort.
A woman in her sixties complained of continuous severe pain in the legs, the vagina, and the area of the bladder. An operation on her back had shown a cystic degeneration of the nerve roots. So there was no doubt about the organic origin of her pain.
At first she found it hard to accept the idea that a psychological approach could help pain of this nature. She kept saying, “But the nerves have this degeneration.” I asked her to stick some pins into my forearm. She was reluctant, but she eventually did so, and was obviously surprised that it did not seem to hurt me. I then had her relax, and I did the same to her. When she opened her eyes she was astounded to find a couple of pins well embedded in her skin. From then on she was most enthusiastic about the exercises. She lost all the pain in her legs, and most of it, but not all, in her vagina and bladder. She later stated that she had developed a real peace of mind, and she volunteered that she was sleeping better than she had for eight or nine years.
I well remember one of my first experiments in helping people with organically determined pain. A woman in her sixties suffered chronic pain in her back from a degenerative condition of her backbone. She said that she had to fly from Melbourne to London and back, and she was terrified of the pain from having to remain in one position in her seat for so long. This was before the advent of the jets.
I taught her to relax and wished her luck. A few weeks later she came in to thank me, saying that she had made the trip without discomfort.
Just a year ago I saw a retired doctor, aged seventy-six years, who had had an extremely painful condition of his foot for nine years. He kept describing it as feeling as if someone were screwing up his foot in a vice. One surgeon had cut the main nerve, another surgeon had dissected the little nerves that lead to the toes, and later the artery had been freed of its nerves. But nothing had any effect on the pain. Another psychiatrist had tried hypnosis, but this was also unsuccessful.
In spite of his age he learned to do the relaxing mental exercises, and soon found he could control the pain.
A few days ago I received a note from his wife saying that he had died, and thanking me for the relief he had had in this last year of his life.
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